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  • Looking for partner or a coparent/donor involved in the kid’s life

    Posted by Blaflor on 20 December 2025 at 11:44

    Hi, I’m a 38-year-old woman, hoping to find my person still and start a family together. Nevertheless, I’m also open to a sperm donor or co-parenting with the right person. I would like my child to have a father, and for that father to be involved in their life, one way or another. In this case, the process would imply IVF. Ideally, looking for someone who has not yet donated or who has limited the number of times they will donate.

    Regarding me, I come from a family where love, care and emotional support have always been important. I am ready to become a mother and give my kid the love that I received from my parents. I am a healthy and sporty person, financially independent, with university studies, and hope to pass on to my child my knowledge of languages, literature, art, music, and culture in general. I am creative and fun, and I aim to raise a child who can become emotionally intelligent, self-sufficient, smart, creative, and caring about others and the environment. Moreover, I wish for my child to feel that they can become whoever they want to be and always be supported. If this resonates with you, please get in touch

    Blaflor replied 6 days, 23 hours ago 5 Members · 4 Replies
  • 4 Replies
  • Jose91

    Member
    16 February 2026 at 04:10

    Hi Blaflor, I just came across your post and it really resonated with me. I love the way you describe the kind of love and support you want to give your child—it really shows your heart. I’m 34, based in South London, and I’m really into all kinds of sports, always up for trying something new, and I love to travel.

    I’d really enjoy chatting and seeing if we connect, and maybe explore how we could make this journey meaningful for both of us and your future child.

    Regards,

    Jose

  • raffa91

    Member
    3 February 2026 at 10:30

    Hi, thank you for your message. I found it very genuine and deeply thoughtful.

    The importance you give to emotional presence, values, and raising a child in a loving and supportive environment really resonates with me.

    I am 35 years old and I come from a close and supportive family, where honesty, responsibility, and caring for one another have always been central. That upbringing has strongly shaped the way I see parenthood today. I feel emotionally grounded and ready to become a father, and I approach this journey with seriousness, reflection, and long term commitment.

    I am financially stable and independent, which allows me to focus on what truly matters, being a present, reliable, and emotionally available parent. My wish is not simply to have a child, but to choose carefully the right mother for my future child, someone honest, emotionally mature, and aligned in values, so that the child can grow up feeling secure, loved, and supported by both parents.

    I am open to co parenting with the right person and would take my role as a father very seriously, being actively involved in my child’s life. Like you, I value education, culture, emotional intelligence, and raising a child who is kind, curious, confident, and free to become who they want to be.

    I would be very open to a calm and honest conversation, with no pressure, to explore whether our visions and expectations might align.

    If this resonates with you, I would be happy to connect.

  • Lawrie7

    Member
    22 January 2026 at 10:29

    Hey! I noticed you sent me a message. I am unable to read it but we may be compatible?

  • Boris567

    Member
    4 January 2026 at 12:22

    Hi, I just read your post and really appreciated your thoughtful and heartfelt approach. I’m also looking for a true connection and a committed relationship with someone who genuinely wants to build a family. Your values and vision really resonate with me, and I’d love the chance to get to know you better and see if we might be a good fit. Looking forward to hearing from you.

     

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