Hi Leanne I have been through the process of a private sperm donor u got to make sure u have the right guy and he has had all checks done and can provide u with the evidence a lot of sperm donors are just doing it for the money meet up with ur sperm donar in a local place get to know each other first it is a very long and stressful process to go through and can be upsetting I was successful on my 5th try but unfortunately I lost the baby at 7 weeks 2 years ago me and my gf are starting to try again I’m looking for a new donar my old private donar not longer donating if u have any questions feel free to ask as there is so much to learn and to long to write on here