• Is this Paul73 for real?

    Posted by ___XXX on 7 September 2010 at 23:44

    I have noticed that there is a man/donor called Paul73 on here and all he seems to do is moan about everything (donation charges etc etc) either he has a very big chip on his shoulder or he just needs one to cry on or something. I am looking for a donor/co-parent to get pregnant hence why I am on this site, I mean I don’t know if this man if offering to donate to ladies or he just likes to have a dig! For one thing he is giving women a bad name saying that we say we want the donor to be in the childs life then we change our minds once we have gotton pregnant or whatever. Surely if we want the donor to be in the childs life, don’t we stick to that? When I find a suitable donor/co-parent, I would like them to have some part if that is what they want and I wouldn’t go back on that as I would for ever be great full to which ever man helped me! This Paul73 also harps on about surrogacey and how us women use people we are helping to have a baby by charging vast amounts of money just to help them have a baby, I mean, would you? Because if I was being a surrogate mother, I would feel I had achieved something and had helped other people have that baby that they long for just like me and other women out there looking to have a baby through donor/surrogate or co-parent! Money doesn’t bother me as that isn’t how I operate! Is this man a donor? 😀

    ___XXX replied 14 years, 5 months ago 1 Member · 3 Replies
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  • ___XXX

    Member
    9 September 2010 at 18:23
    quote Daniella:

    I have noticed that there is a man/donor called Paul73 on here and all he seems to do is moan about everything (donation charges etc etc) either he has a very big chip on his shoulder or he just needs one to cry on or something. I am looking for a donor/co-parent to get pregnant hence why I am on this site, I mean I don’t know if this man if offering to donate to ladies or he just likes to have a dig! For one thing he is giving women a bad name saying that we say we want the donor to be in the childs life then we change our minds once we have gotton pregnant or whatever. Surely if we want the donor to be in the childs life, don’t we stick to that? When I find a suitable donor/co-parent, I would like them to have some part if that is what they want and I wouldn’t go back on that as I would for ever be great full to which ever man helped me! This Paul73 also harps on about surrogacey and how us women use people we are helping to have a baby by charging vast amounts of money just to help them have a baby, I mean, would you? Because if I was being a surrogate mother, I would feel I had achieved something and had helped other people have that baby that they long for just like me and other women out there looking to have a baby through donor/surrogate or co-parent! Money doesn’t bother me as that isn’t how I operate! Is this man a donor? 😀

    think you need to take you head out of you backside and look. most of the posts that i have put on here are for info and from real sites. if you so bothered then feel free to use a clinic. you obviously have a problem but dont bother looking any further than the end of your nose.

    if you insist on slagging donors off then maybe you talk to them first. yes people do go back on what they agree, yes they do money about paying fuel costs, may i recommened andrew proven donor for you too use hes an excellent person and should suit you well.

    so are you for real or just working for the next story for the daily mail.

  • ___XXX

    Member
    9 September 2010 at 19:45

    more real than you would believe 🙂 but ha never mind if you have a problem with the truth best you start crying, most of what ive put on the forum is from a true real life link not a cyber world one. but never mind if you have any problems maybe you should use a clinic and get a designer baby. good luck. 🙂

  • ___XXX

    Member
    10 September 2010 at 21:47

    Hi paul,

    If you have read a message from me dating from the 9/09/10 (either you got it or deleted it?) I was actually saying sorry to you for the things I said and it isn’t that I can’t take the truth. And no I don’t work for a national newpaper that you said! The reason I want to have a baby via co-parenting or sperm donation is because I was sexually abused by someone that I knew and thought I could trust that is why I get on my high horse sometimes, atm I am having problems with trusting men which is kinda understandable, isn’t it?? Like I said I am really sorry if I offended you, I was well out of line. I am not looking to have a designer baby, just one that I can call my own and love unconditionally-something I never had!!!!!!!!!! Perhaps I am naive and need to learn a few home truths every now and then but who doesn’t?I am one of these people who jumps in head 1st without thinking!!!! I wasn’t aware that these issues were happening, guess I need to do a lot of research!!!! Once again I’m really sorry!!! Daniella X 😳

    I guess some people may say that if I am having problems trusting men, then why do I want to have a baby?

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