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  • I would like some advice, single woman wanting a child

    Posted by Stubzcat on 12 January 2021 at 21:29

    I really just want some advice.
    I’m 34 years old, I had one child and they passed away 9 years ago now, ever since I have wanted more children, the many I was with kept telling me to wait a little longer a little longer, then last year he decided he doesn’t want children any time soon =(
    It has been heartbreaking to realise that I put this off for someone that never intended to do this with me. So I decided I really just want to focus on having a child right now, I’m not rich though, I dont have the money to pay for a private clinic which is literally the only advice I got from my GP.
    I was wondering if it’s possible to buy from a sperm bank and do an ici, is that legal? Or, are there any charities to help single women to pay fertility clinic prices? To be honest any advice would be amazing, sorry for rambling! Tysm for any advice.

    Teova replied 8 months, 2 weeks ago 9 Members · 14 Replies
  • 14 Replies
  • PB1983

    13 January 2021 at 17:53

    Would NI be an option for you ? I’m sure you would find some NI donors on here who would help you

  • PB1983

    13 January 2021 at 20:35

    Have you not considered NI. Sure there
    Would be offers of that on here for you and would save the clinic fees

  • DrVidri

    14 January 2021 at 08:24

    I can make you pregnant for free. You don’t need to be rich to be a mother, and I think that you deserve a bit of happiness, happy to help you .

  • MumaSu

    17 January 2021 at 01:06

    I find myself in a very very similar situation. Would love to keep in touch and share any answers we manage to find. It feels so daunting but I am 100% that I would like a living child.

  • ___deleted-user

    19 January 2021 at 23:21

    Hey can I help xxx

  • ___deleted-user

    30 January 2021 at 08:53

    Just exploring
    I wish you’ll find your solution
    But if nothing text me
    As last option

  • xxfit

    16 April 2021 at 16:41

    cant help but cringe at these guys like dogs in heat

  • nilaytan

    28 May 2021 at 17:32

    Are you looking for donor or advice ?

  • ___deleted-user

    21 June 2021 at 11:53

    I agree and cringe at the response from some people here. I will recommend to keep your options open. Have you researched on clinics in Spain. They offer free consultations. Also explore what options are here in this site by speaking to people. I do believe there are right people here who understand your situation and willing to help. There will always be rotten ones every where and as long as you weed them out, you could get what you want. Good luck

  • Sal4045

    24 June 2021 at 22:51

    I didn’t see anyone mentioning home insemination kits. You can find an AI donor.
    There are pros & cons. The clinics would offer you the best service and the most checks, but at a cost. I am not aware of charities covering this.
    You can take your time to find the right donor and have similar checks (STI, DNA) that they do in-clinic if you wish. STI checks are free and I consider normal to ask; but not DNA are a bit expensive, a donor might ask you to pay for that extra.

  • ___deleted-user

    8 October 2021 at 11:49

    Hello to all these beautiful women who have the illusion of being a single mother, I think it is beautiful to have a child, but if we look at the balance there are also men who want to have children and get involved in raising the baby, I am the son of a single mother and although my mother gave me everything I wanted and everything she could there is something she could not give me and that was the emptiness of the questions I would ask my father, the lack of the love of two and that leaves an unrepairable damage in the feelings and in the hearts of children from single-parent families. I am the experience, it is not about the love of siblings, cousins, grandparents or uncles but about the love of daddy, who I want to imitate and who I want to ask embarrassing questions to. today I am here looking for a woman with the same interests as me and above all someone involved enough for a stable relationship and to raise our child together.

  • ___deleted-user

    28 December 2021 at 11:25

    This is my question too! The Avenue I want to explore is finding a donor willing to provide a donation for ICI with the Moxie kit. But it’s hard to find info on here as to whether that’s an option people are open to or if all AI donations are expected to be through clinics.

  • ___deleted-user

    1 April 2022 at 11:14


    ICI seems to be the expected here (unless otherwise specified) since IUI and IVF at fertility clinics cost so much. You’ll see old posts here recommending a calpol syringe at the most basic level.

    Everyone is comfortable with different things, just state what you’re comfortable with and expect then see if someone can help

  • Teova

    5 September 2023 at 09:31

    I can help you.

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