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Caring, Smart, Successful 38 yrs old – citizen of the world!
I am an normal girl, but one who has dedicated a disproportionate amount of time towards my career. Then blink – Shit – I am 38!
Well, not quite – but..
Coming from a well educated, but not privileged background – I found myself working very hard from very early on – not because I needed to do so, BUT because I NEEDED to do it myself.
It has been a long road – one that I loved every minute of it. But foremost, one that allowed me to break all pre-conceived ideas of my somewhat conservative upbringing/ framework – which forced me to build from little but enabled me to become the person I am very proud of having grown into today!
In parallel – I have always felt I would love to be a mother, but also felt a child should not be brought into this world unless a parent/s can provide – In one way I wanted to ensure I was foremost financially stable, but in reality, I wanted to ensure I would be able to spend real quality time with the child, yet not have to worry too much about the mortgage, and goodness forbid, counting pennies – without feeling dependant on someone.
But turns out, balancing the long career road and finding the right partner wasn’t a given (even though for most of my adult life I have been a petite size 6 – DD with flawless skin and pretty awesome luscious hair). So, yes I had many suitors ready to whisk me away – but I was just not that kind of girl.
Therefore, here I am, fully aware I was probably a little harsh on the boys along the years – yet fully aware I am also a realist, and the facts are:
– I am more than ready to be a mom
– I can provide well for the baby
=> but finding the right father is not an easy task / choice.I believe that everyone should have the choice/access/ability and contact with their biological lineage – therefore, co-parenting sounds appealing – but open to donors too.
Foremost, right now I wonder if there are a wannabe daddies out there who genuinely would like to co-parent with like minded people.
If so, PM me – as I would love to talk some more.
LM
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