29year old male looking for female co parent

Ok so I’m in the early stages of considering the co parent options available.
I’m 29 white British male and I’ve never had any luck with relationships and I’m getting to that age now where I think I could be a father. Obviously I would rather have had a kid from a relationship but that unfortunately hasn’t happened.
I’m from and live in Somerset but quite often I’m down in Devon working.
If I did go down this option and found the right person to do this with I would want to play an active role. However I know that there could well be a lot of fake people on here so I’m going to stay cautious and make sure I’m not duped by anyone.