28yr Avon Based black female looking to co parent

Bristol based black 28 year female ( Already mother of one older child).

Looking to co parent with white male who has previously considered mixed raced children

I want to spend 12 months or so planning this / getting to know the person

Looking to split responsibility 40/70 with majority to the father but child will live with me.

40 year as maximum upper age 29 years minimum.

Someone local who works flexibly preferably self employed / working for themselves ( I work for myself)