Is this Paul73 for real?

    by Daniella      .      07 Sep 2010

    I have noticed that there is a man/donor called Paul73 on here and all he seems to do is moan about everything (donation charges etc etc) either he has a very big chip on his shoulder or he just needs one to cry on or something. I am looking for a donor/co-parent to get pregnant hence why I am on this site, I mean I don't know if this man if offering to donate to ladies or he just likes to have a dig! For one thing he is giving women a bad name saying that we say we want the donor to be in the childs life then we change our minds once we have gotton pregnant or whatever. Surely if we want the donor to be in the childs life, don't we stick to that? When I find a suitable donor/co-parent, I would like them to have some part if that is what they want and I wouldn't go back on that as I would for ever be great full to which ever man helped me! This Paul73 also harps on about surrogacey and how us women use people we are helping to have a baby by charging vast amounts of money just to help them have a baby, I mean, would you? Because if I was being a surrogate mother, I would feel I had achieved something and had helped other people have that baby that they long for just like me and other women out there looking to have a baby through donor/surrogate or co-parent! Money doesn't bother me as that isn't how I operate! Is this man a donor? :D

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    Daniella on 07 Sep 2010

    I have noticed that there is a man/donor called Paul73 on here and all he seems to do is moan about everything (donation charges etc etc) either he has a very big chip on his shoulder or he just needs one to cry on or something. I am looking for a donor/co-parent to get pregnant hence why I am on this site, I mean I don't know if this man if offering to donate to ladies or he just likes to have a dig! For one thing he is giving women a bad name saying that we say we want the donor to be in the childs life then we change our minds once we have gotton pregnant or whatever. Surely if we want the donor to be in the childs life, don't we stick to that? When I find a suitable donor/co-parent, I would like them to have some part if that is what they want and I wouldn't go back on that as I would for ever be great full to which ever man helped me! This Paul73 also harps on about surrogacey and how us women use people we are helping to have a baby by charging vast amounts of money just to help them have a baby, I mean, would you? Because if I was being a surrogate mother, I would feel I had achieved something and had helped other people have that baby that they long for just like me and other women out there looking to have a baby through donor/surrogate or co-parent! Money doesn't bother me as that isn't how I operate! Is this man a donor? :D

    paul73 on 09 Sep 2010


    paul73 on 09 Sep 2010

    more real than you would believe :) but ha never mind if you have a problem with the truth best you start crying, most of what ive put on the forum is from a true real life link not a cyber world one. but never mind if you have any problems maybe you should use a clinic and get a designer baby. good luck. :)

    Daniella on 10 Sep 2010

    Hi paul,

    If you have read a message from me dating from the 9/09/10 (either you got it or deleted it?) I was actually saying sorry to you for the things I said and it isn't that I can't take the truth. And no I don't work for a national newpaper that you said! The reason I want to have a baby via co-parenting or sperm donation is because I was sexually abused by someone that I knew and thought I could trust that is why I get on my high horse sometimes, atm I am having problems with trusting men which is kinda understandable, isn't it?? Like I said I am really sorry if I offended you, I was well out of line. I am not looking to have a designer baby, just one that I can call my own and love unconditionally-something I never had!!!!!!!!!! Perhaps I am naive and need to learn a few home truths every now and then but who doesn't?I am one of these people who jumps in head 1st without thinking!!!! I wasn't aware that these issues were happening, guess I need to do a lot of research!!!! Once again I'm really sorry!!! Daniella X :oops:

    I guess some people may say that if I am having problems trusting men, then why do I want to have a baby?


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