32 year old wanting to become a mum ASAP

    by Jjholmes      .      14 Aug 2020

    My name is Jess and I am a 32 year old looking to become a mum. I'm a degree educated homeowner and I currently work as a care coordinator. I'm looking for sperm donation from someone aged 45 or under willing to be known to any child or platonic coparenting.

    I have mild cerebral palsy (basically a bit of a limp), some food intolerances and some fatigue symptoms. However, I have spoken to doctors and specialists and been assured that there is no reason I cannot have and raise children successfully. I have also spent quite a bit of time around children over the years and not had any difficulty caring for them.

    I believe that I have a lot to offer a child and can't wait to share some of my knowledge and experience with them.

    I have travelled in Australia and spent a little time in France. I am fascinated by different places and cultures.

    History, languages, nature and fell walking are just some of the other topics that interest me. I love learning new things and would describe myself as 'a bit of a nerd' (but in a good way)!


    A quick update: suddenly, out of nowhere I have developed allopecia arreata (hair loss). I'm not bald but I am really really worried that this could hinder my chances of finding a coparent. Doctors are telling me not to worry and go ahead but for that I need another person to agree. Is there anyone out there who would still consider me? I desperately want to be a mum!

    I have a good support network, am willing to be flexible in any arrangements and am eager to start this adventure. Please get in touch to discuss how you would ideally like the process to work for you.

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    My name is Jess and I am a 32 year old looking to become a mum. I'm a degree educated homeowner and I currently work as a care coordinator. I'm looking for sperm donation from someone aged 45 or under willing to be known to any child or platonic coparenting.

    I have mild cerebral palsy (basically a bit of a limp), some food intolerances and some fatigue symptoms. However, I have spoken to doctors and specialists and been assured that there is no reason I cannot have and raise children successfully. I have also spent quite a bit of time around children over the years and not had any difficulty caring for them.

    I believe that I have a lot to offer a child and can't wait to share some of my knowledge and experience with them.

    I have travelled in Australia and spent a little time in France. I am fascinated by different places and cultures.

    History, languages, nature and fell walking are just some of the other topics that interest me. I love learning new things and would describe myself as 'a bit of a nerd' (but in a good way)!


    A quick update: suddenly, out of nowhere I have developed allopecia arreata (hair loss). I'm not bald but I am really really worried that this could hinder my chances of finding a coparent. Doctors are telling me not to worry and go ahead but for that I need another person to agree. Is there anyone out there who would still consider me? I desperately want to be a mum!

    I have a good support network, am willing to be flexible in any arrangements and am eager to start this adventure. Please get in touch to discuss how you would ideally like the process to work for you.

    Hi Jess - I would be keen to discuss further if you would like to message? Thanks,

    hello, may be can talk , like to help

    Where are you located

    Direct message me

    hello jess iam in north london enfield, like to help each other... like the way you read, lets talk and see how we get on. looking forward to a having a child with someone like yourself. wait for your reply as you, ASAP... all best hassan


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